Withholding feelings，that is，keeping them inside and not giving any verbal or nonverbal clues to their exstence，iS generally an inappropriate means of dealing with feelings.Psychologists believe that when people withhold feelings，they Can develop physical problems such as cancers，high blood pressure，heart disease and psychological problems.Moreover, people who withhold feelings are often regarded as cold，unsociable，and not much fun to be around.However, there are occasions where withholding is appropriate.When a situation is unimportant，you may well choose to withhold your feelings.For instance，a stranger’s inconsiderate behavior. at a party may annoy you，but as you can move to another part of the room，withholding your feelings might be a way out.
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