Passage Three
When she returned home after a year in South America, Judith Martin, a North American writer, began to have a problem. People kept interpreting her behavior as flirtatious, but she was not flirting. Fairly soon she figured out what was happening.
When most South Americans talk to each other face-to-face, they stand closer together than do North Americans. Martin had not readjusted to North American distances. Apparently, she had forgotten about the phenomenon known as personal space — the amount of physical distance people expect during social interaction. Everyone has expectations concerning the use of personal space, but accepted distances for that space are determined by each person’s culture.
Observations about personal space began about twenty years ago. Anthropologist Edward T. Hall was a pioneer in the field. He became very interested in how interpersonal distances affected communication between people. In his book The Hidden Dimension, Hall coined the word “proxemics” to describe people’s use of space as a means of communication. As Hall’s book title indicates, most people are unaware that interpersonal distances exist and contribute to people’s reactions to one another.Personal space depends on invisible boundaries. Those boundaries move with people as they interact.
Personal space gets larger or smaller depending on the circumstances of the social interaction at any moment. People do not like anyone to trespass on their personal space. As Worchel and Cooper explain, invasions of personal space elicit negative reactions that range from mild discomfort to retaliation to walking out on the situation.
Researchers working with Hall’s data found that accepted interpersonal distances in the United States also depend on other factors. For example, subcultures help determine expectations concerning personal space. Fisher, Bell, and Baum report that groups of Hispanic-Americans generally interact more closely within their subculture than Anglo-Americans do within theirs. They further explain that in general subcultural groups tend to interact at closer distances with members of their own subculture than with nonmembers.
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