When we are not engaged in thinking about some definite problem, we usually spend about 95 percent ofour time thinking about ourselves. Now, if we stop thinking about ourselves for a while and begin to think ofother persons9 good points, things will be quite different. 

One of the most neglected virtues is appreciation. Somehow, we neglect to praise our son or daughterwhen he or she brings home a good report card, and we fail to encourage our children when they first succeedin baking a cake or building a birdhouse. Nothing please children more than this kind of parental interest andapproval. 

The next time you enjoy delicious food at a restaurant, send word to the cook that it is excellently prepared,and when a tired salesperson shows you unusual politeness, please mention it. 

Every minister, lecturer and public speaker knows the discouragement of pouring himself or herself out toan andience and not receiving any appreciative comment. What applies to professionals applies doubly toworkers in offices, shops and factories and our families and friends. In our interpersonal relations we shouldnever forget that all our associates are human beings and hunger for appreciation. It is the legal tender that allsouls enjoy. 

Try to be friendly and appreciative in your daily life，and you’ll be surprised how that will change yourlife and the world.